The first matchmaking service of its kind

We are the very first matchmaking service to incorporate your friend's approval in the process.

We built your best friend's opinion into the science of finding your person.

Research shows the social network effect is one of the strongest predictors of lasting love. We are active in Los Angeles, San Francisco, and London.

The Process

So, how does it work?

1

Step 1

We learn all about you.

This includes a personality test, love language assessment, a unique questionnaire, and more. We take the time to truly understand who you are before we ever begin the search.

2

Step 2

We find your best matches.

We are always looking for your person, and we will go up to anyone, anywhere. Let us do the vetting for you across LA, San Francisco, and London.

3

Step 3

Best Friend Approved.

Opt-in for your best friend to come into the picture. We will not match you unless your best friend approves. Because the people who know you best, know best.

4

Step 4

You go on your dream date.

We will set up your first date from start to finish. Leave the planning to us. That pre-first-date feeling — butterflies, nerves, real anticipation — that is what we are here for.

"Across several different research groups, something referred to as the social network effect has emerged. The social network effect states that our relationships with romantic partners are enhanced when our other social ties approve of the partner — and that social network disapproval can lead to the end of a romantic relationship."
Psychology Today
Where We Are

Now active in three cities.

Los Angeles

Now Active

San Francisco

Now Active

London

Now Active

Are you ready to
meet your person?

Join free today. Bring your best friend. Find your forever person.

What We Offer

Matchmaking,
reimagined.

Every service is built around one belief: the people who know you best, know best.

01

Personality Intake

Included in All Plans

A deep-dive personality assessment, love language evaluation, and a proprietary questionnaire that goes far beyond the surface.

02

Curated Matching

Human-Led, Not Algorithm-Driven

Our matchmakers personally curate each introduction across LA, SF, and London. No swiping. No noise. Just intentional connections.

03

Best Friend Approval

Our Signature Feature

Opt in for your best friend to weigh in before we make any introduction. Social network approval is one of the strongest predictors of lasting love.

04

Date Concierge

Premium Plans

We plan your first date from start to finish — the venue, the reservation, every detail. All you have to do is show up.

05

Ongoing Coaching

Premium Plans

Post-date feedback and relationship coaching to help you navigate each connection with clarity and confidence.

06

VIP Events

Members Only

Exclusive in-person gatherings for Best Friend Approved members in LA, SF, and London.

Membership

Choose your plan.

Starter

The Classic

  • Personality intake + questionnaire
  • Up to 3 curated matches
  • Best friend approval feature
  • Email support
Premium

The VIP

  • Everything in Full Experience
  • Dedicated matchmaker
  • Ongoing relationship coaching
  • Priority search across all cities
  • Concierge support

Ready to find
your person?

Join free and let us get to work.

Events

Meet people.
In real life.

Exclusive gatherings for members and friends of Best Friend Approved across LA, SF, and London.

Los Angeles — VIP Members

Spring Social at Soho House West Hollywood

Saturday, May 10th
7:00 – 9:30 PM
9200 Sunset Blvd, West Hollywood
San Francisco — Open to Members

Wine & Introductions in Hayes Valley

Thursday, May 22nd
6:30 – 9:00 PM
Hayes Valley, San Francisco
London — VIP Members

Summer Evening at Shoreditch House

Friday, June 6th
7:00 – 10:00 PM
Ebor Street, London E1

Past Events

Los Angeles

VIP Night at Alice + Olivia

Beverly Drive, Beverly Hills — Cocktails, mini makeovers, and 30% off alongside founders Julie Lauren and Sami Toussi.

Houston

Spring Shopping Event

Alice + Olivia, River Oaks District — Champagne, shopping, and introductions with the BFA team.

Los Angeles

Alice + Olivia Spring Collection

Beverly Hills — Members joined founders to shop the spring collection with champagne and 20% off.